All your pain and grievances derive from the efforts to fit with realities imagined and decided by others.
As long as you remain in those realities, sufferance and loss are inevitable.
Those are the realities where you may be, as you read these words.
You can find true meaning and joy only when you are free to accept any reality you can conceive, including those you imagine on your own or share with kindred spirits.
Those are the realities where you may be, as you read these words.
Your pain and grievances, your joy and freedom, depend only on the reality you refer to.
You can choose this reality or allow others to decide it for you.