What happens when you feel strong attraction towards someone?
When you feel strong attraction towards someone, that person may be a projection of a lost inner part of you, which you need to retrieve.
Every strong attraction may simply show you this. Through attraction a deep part of your soul draws your attention through someone.
The verb “to attract” means “to draw towards oneself”. When you feel attraction you are drawing towards you. This is because at an inner level what attracts you is a part of you. At this level attraction is always legitimate.
So here it is not about giving up attraction, repressing it, or feeling embarrassed, confused, anxious about it.
The attraction comes so that you can acknowledge what needs to be drawn towards you.
Accept the attraction, for this is the first step in retrieving your wholeness.
What instead requires caution are the operating methods you use to respond to an attraction, how you draw towards you what attracts you.
Here it is essential to distinguish between the projection of what attracts you and what actually attracts you.
This is the hardest part!
For example, you see the picture of someone’s body and you’re attracted, but the picture is just a picture, and you attracted by the body in the picture and not by the picture. So far things are pretty clear.
However, once you actually meet and see that body which was in the picture, are you really sure that what attracts you is the body?
All that attracts you in this world may be the representation of something existing elsewhere.
In the end we may be here either to ignore or understand this.