How much time and energy do you use in making comparisons between you and others?
Just be aware.
You get to know someone’s age, and immediately calculate the age difference. You meet someone and consider who is taller or thinner; better dressed, with more money, property, resources, with better health or relationship status, with the higher or lower level of education, spirituality, achievements in life; the number of children, grandchildren; who is more miserable, intelligent, etc.
How much time do you spend envying others, feeling at the same level or superior?
But beyond the comparison with others, who are you?
What’s left of you when you do not make any comparison?