The unconscious intent of a human conversation is to release the perception of separation and the split between subject and object, in order to retrieve their original unity.
It is a desperate intent since the languages used in human conversations are based on the clear distinction between subject and object, so they are all an incessant repetition of personal pronouns, of “I”, “you”, “he”, ” mine yours”.
It follows therefore that the more people speak with the intent, more or less unconscious, to reach a state of unity, the more their own words contribute to reinforcing the separation and the resulting conflict.
It is therefore understandable how in this context of linguistic disadvantage the most widespread way to eliminate conflict consists in silencing one’s interlocutor, sometimes in a violent and definitive manner.
Another option, which is an operational proposal to try out, consists in silencing both the other and oneself, possibly in a cordial manner, having a conversation while remaining in absolute silence and also with closed eyes.