If someone asks for help about a problem or because they would like to get something they want or release something they don’t want, I refer to three main options.
The first involves telling them that if they behave or don’t behave in a certain wave, then they can fix the problem or get what they want or let go of what they don’t want.
The other option implies telling them that no matter how they behave or don’t behave, they will never fix the problem, nor will they get what they want or let go of what they don’t want.
Both options, when they are used simultaneously or at different times, are legitimate and authentic. This is because they cancel each other, paving the way for a third option, which is something nobody can tell anything about.
Franco Santoro